NICU Diaries: Week 11
Baby is 38 weeks corrected gestational age.
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Day 71: Milk Drunk
I worked with a lactation consultant Rachel who helped wake him up, observed his latch, saw how interested he is in milk (not very), and introduced a nipple shield to help him stay latched since he was off and on. She encouraged me that he’s almost there and it just takes time and practice. Since he’s already done a session where he got milk and did well, she is having me do “modified nutritive breastfeeding” where I pump halfway, and leave enough milk in there so that maybe he gets some but doesn’t get overwhelmed by the flow. Our nurse says that now Baby can try once a shift, so I can practice breastfeeding with him once during the day and again at night.
This was his very satisfied face with milk coming out of his mouth after he breastfed. Nurse Kristi calls it “milk drunk” 😆.
Day 72: First Test Weight
I brought the Boppy breastfeeding pillow with me to the hospital and it sure made it more comfortable. We did test weights before and after Baby’s breastfeeding session to see how much he drank, and he had 15mL of milk! It would have been more, but he spit up a bit. I’m so proud of him!
Aunt Adelyn dropped by and held Baby for the first time.
Day 73: Nutritive Breastfeeding
Baby was cueing really well over night so we tried breastfeeding him again today. We didn’t get a test weight before he started latching onto me, so just estimated that he got up to half of his feeding in 15 minutes at the noon session. He didn’t spit up any of it! He was vigorous and continuous.
He loves being active and looking at everything, especially the red animals on his baby mobile. He fought going to sleep so Nurse Katelin (the one who made footprints and handprints for us) put him in the swing. Such a sweet face!
Night was a different story. Baby and I had gotten very comfortable snuggling skin to skin and I even snoozed for a moment. He did not appreciate getting woken up and moved around for Cares, but tolerated it after his diaper change. I breastfed him and he wouldn’t latch or drink much from me, so his test weight had No Change. It’s difficult to accept those results, but I can’t push him if he gives me multiple clues that he’s done.
Aunt Adelyn came to see us after her school. Being with Henry can be so relaxing. I had a hard time getting up this morning so I said lots of prayers, put one foot in front of the other, and was able to take a shower and eat a bowl of cereal and pump before heading to my doctor appointment this morning. I was scared about the IUD placement going wrong or my uterus getting punctured again. Talked with the Nurse Practitioner about counteracting the hormones and it turns out that’s not really an option for me since my breast milk supply might be affected. I left the office cramping, bleeding, and in a little pain; holding my baby made everything all better somehow.
Day 74: Feeding & Breathing Progress
I walked in to find Baby sound asleep being held by a woman named Jessica. It was the first time I got to meet an actual Cuddler, and she was super nice saying how cute Henry is and that he was telling her all kinds of stories.
He got 16mL at his afternoon breastfeeding session, went for less than 10mins after latching. I love seeing his quiet face covered in milk.
He is now on Low flow!!! We can see his cheeks!!!! 😍😍😍
The respiratory therapist showed me Baby’s inhaler and gave me instructions. There’s 2 preventative medicines in it; he gets 2 puffs twice a day (once during day and once during night). While he’s at the hospital, they can give it to him. He’ll likely go home with it for a couple months and then the pediatrician can discontinue it.
Henry was cueing (showing signs of wanting to eat) while I was getting ready to leave, so the nurse practitioner and Nurse Natalie encouraged me to breastfeed him again because “it says twice a day, not specific times” so we did back to back. He took 14mL! Then the lactation consultant gave me good tips on facial exercises to do with him so that he doesn’t fight me at the beginning to latch. We only need one more feeding with at least 5mL in the test weight before they can start bottle feeding him.
Nurse practitioner Anita stopped me on my way out to talk. Henry is getting an echocardiogram tomorrow to get a picture of the structure of his heart. Some nurses heard a heart murmur last night so we want to see if his heart is working too hard to support his lungs, and to make sure it’s developed properly. The team at Primary Children’s was supposed to look at his labs and lung info to give recommendations for BPD chronic lung disease, but they didn’t have room at the discussion. Since the lungs and heart affect each other so much, the respiratory and cardiology departments work in tandem. I’m trying not to be anxious about this new development.
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